There Is No Good Dancing In The Friend Zone

By Teddy Shabba Question From A Reader: I told a woman that I like her and asked her how she felt about me. So basically, first she says she likes me, then, she says se doesn’t, then, she says she doesn’t know. Is she just trying to keep me open as a fall-back plan because she knows I like her? What action should I take right now, I mean, I’ve been trying to get her to just say it for the past two days, but she just says that she can’t tell me. What’s up? Answer: I imagine that once you told her that you liked her it had her rather confused. She really doesn’t know how she feels about you and her knowing that you like her means that she doesn’t like you the way you like her. She likes you as a friend and doesn’t want to lose that, yet knows since you like her and asked her how she feels that she risks losing your friendship if she tells you no. In other words, your telling her how you feel and demanding to know how she feels, for whatever reason, has made her scared to give you the “Let’s just be friends” speech. Considering her hesitation in telling you the truth, your best plan of action is to give her what she fears the most; stop talking to her. Hopefully, just being friends is unacceptable for you and if so, since you already know that’s where you are right now, there is no need to hear her answer. However, you might sill have just enough value in her life, that you cutting off communication with her will cause her to become attracted to you. No matter what happens this time, it is important to understand that if you tell a woman you like her and don’t know how she feels, more than likely you are headed towards the “friend zone”. Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now. Also with over 500 articles from a variety of dating experts just for men our Dating Advice and Seduction Article Database is the perfect place for any man. To learn more about How To Attract Women visit our article section Attract Women Today Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Teddy_Shabba http://EzineArticles.com/?There-Is-No-Good-Dancing-In-The-Friend-Zone&id=554385 boston apartment for rent no credit check free secured personal loans bad credit texas bad credit car loan florida payday rules

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